Not looking for a ONS. Before you message me, read my profile. Also, I will not respond to people who have not bothered putting anything in their profile, especially a picture. A little bit of effort will go a long way.
About Me
I'm smart, quirky, and have high positive energy. I'm girlie, tomboyish, hippie-ish, rebellious, sassy. Neurospicy and bratty. I like to dress up, and I like to play. I love to learn and laugh. I'm really into going out and doing things. A friend has described me as "boisterous when properly stimulated," and that goes for every situation. I'm pretty shy at first, so I love when someone makes the first move. My handle is a description of my personality, my life, and my brain and a nod to one of my favorite shows ever.
Vanilla me is into DIY and crafts, reading, events, camping, outdoors, kayaking, and thrifting. I'm into sci-fi and fantasy. My favorites franchises are Star Trek, Dr Who, GOT, and Joss Whedon (yes, I know he sucks, but the shows are so good). Okay, kinky me is into all this too.
I have many, many turn ons. I am very sapiosexual... if my mind is turned on, so is my body. I have had crushes on people across the spectrum of gender and sexuality but prefer androgynous and masc partners (a high preference for facial hair).
My kinks list continues to grow. BDSM is big for me right now. I absolutely LOVE bondage of every kind (except unsafe or sticky). Being dominated and "***d" into submission... mmmmmmmm. I'm a little bit of a Masochist, but I'm going slow on this. I love discreet public play, and I'm a bit of a Voyeur and a tiny bit Exhibitionist. I love lingerie, toys, and someone talking dirty to me. I love praise, pretty names, and my partner may use some ***. Multiple-partner scenarios could be okay, but I've not had much luck or joy in these situations. Also, I love to snuggle.
Relationship Goals
Not looking for a ONS, FWB, or LDR. I believe practice makes progress, and relationships and playtime get better over time.
I do want a relationship built on respect and communication, preferably long term. I want a nesting partner, and I would love to negotiate a D/s dynamic, but due to family needs, it will probably never be 24/7.
Monogamy is not important to me; however, if the right partner wants it, I'm okay with it.
And since this seems to be popular...
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
95% Voyeur
91% Brat
88% Submissive
86% Rope ***
85% Primal (Prey)
81% Vanilla
78% Non-monogamist
77% Boy/Girl
70% Masochist
55% Exhibitionist
54% Experimentalist
51% Ageplayer
44% Slave
42% Sadist
41% Master/Mistress
38% Switch
34% Rigger
32% Dominant
28% Pet
28% Primal (Hunter)
18% Brat tamer
14% Degradee
10% Owner
6% Daddy/Mommy
5% Degrader
